Anonymous asked: so my best friend is a guy and we've been friends for a while and i realized i was in love wit him but when we hung out the other day we hu and now he hasnt talked to me in 6 days and someone else asked me to be there gf what do i do?

wellll understandable that that’s complicated for you.

first of all do you know why he hasn’t talked to you? or is that normal that you don’t contact each other for a couple of days because you don’t find the time etc.. maybe that’s what it was. but if you’re not sure, or feel ignored by him, just message or call him i mean you guys are best friends, i’m sure you’re able to clear that.

i just re-read your message and i’m not sure if i might have misunderstood you, did you already tell him you love him and he’s avoiding you now, because of that maybe? or didn’t you tell him yet?

okay i’ll move on assuming you didn’t tell him, well i understood it that way.

i’d just try to see if it’s really worth risking it, because i guess if you tell him and he doesn’t love you back, that way, it’s gonna be a little awkward and you’ll be hurt, but if you think hard you might noticed some signs of him possibly loving you too, or you wait a bit and behave a little different in his presence, more like a girl that likes a boy not like a friend, maybe he’ll notice?

and about the other boy, do you know him well enough and if so, do you like him and could imagine him as your bf?

i just had a thought, you could tell your guy friend about him and ask him for his opinion, maybe you’ll notice him being a little jealous? 

i really don’t know what else to tell you except for, go with your gut, as stupid as it might sound, i believe everything will work out either way, if he’s not the right one, someone else will be. :)